'Don't make me go with him': Pennsylvania father barred from contacting son, ex-partner for 3 years

NewsWorld NewsUS NewsA Pennsylvania mother said her son's father pushed into her home and frightened their seven-year-old during a custody handoff; a November 12 appeals court upheld a three-year order barring contact with both A Pennsylvania mother said her son's father pushed into her home and frightened their seven-year-old during a custody handoff; a November 12 appeals court upheld a three-year order barring contact with both The mother alleged that he forced his way into her home and frightened their son during a custody handoff.

(Representational photo) A routine child handoff in Pennsylvania turned into a frightening confrontation after a father allegedly pushed his way into his former partner's home and began shouting in front of their seven-year-old son.

The mother said the boy became so distressed that he later begged her not to make him go with his father again. She also refused to let the child leave with him, saying she feared for his safety.The incident took place on June 23, when Daniel E Vaxter arrived at Amy M Lord's home to take their son to a kickboxing class.

Lord later approached a court for protection, describing the confrontation and alleging that Vaxter had behaved aggressively towards her and the child.A Pennsylvania court granted her request and barred Vaxter from contacting both of them for three years.

Vaxter challenged the order, arguing that the evidence did not establish abuse. However, the Pennsylvania Superior Court upheld the restriction on November 12, allowing the protection order to remain in place.According to the details available in the judgement, the events leading to the confrontation had started earlier that day with an argument over the boy's half-brother.

Lord told the court that Vaxter was angry because she was encouraging their son to maintain contact with his sibling. She said he shouted at her during a phone call and refused to change his tone when she asked him to stop.The disagreement continued when he arrived at her home at around 4.50 pm.

Lord said she opened the door and told him that their son would come out shortly. Instead, she alleged, Vaxter pushed his way inside and began shouting about court papers and the half-brother's biological mother.Their son heard the argument and came downstairs.

Lord said the boy sat on the couch while his father continued shouting. She asked Vaxter to leave because she did not want him arguing inside the house in front of the child.Mother refuses to send son with father Vaxter eventually went outside and called the boy to join him.

The child followed him towards the car, but Lord became concerned about letting him leave.She told the court that Vaxter smelled strongly of marijuana and appeared to be under the influence of something. She was uncomfortable with their son travelling in his car in that condition.Lord called the child back.

She alleged that Vaxter suddenly turned towards them and moved quickly in their direction. She became frightened, hugged the boy and placed him behind her before asking him to return inside.The mother said Vaxter then began recording the exchange on his phone.

She alleged that his manner changed once he started filming, although he continued arguing outside the house. The confrontation ended when a landscaper arrived at the property. Vaxter got into his car and left.But the incident continued to affect the child after his father had gone.

Lord said the boy was crying and extremely upset when they returned inside. He then told her, "Mommy please don't make me go with him anymore."Lord also told the court that her fear was not based only on that day's confrontation.

She described earlier incidents in which Vaxter had allegedly thrown her against a wall when their son was six months old. She also accused him of hitting the child on the leg and hand on separate occasions.She said shouting and aggressive behaviour had been recurring problems.

According to her testimony, the boy regularly told her that he was afraid of his father.Lord acknowledged that Vaxter had not physically touched her during the June 23 incident. However, she said his behaviour that day made her fear that he could become violent.Father disputes mother's account Vaxter gave a different version of what happened at the house.

He said he had arrived to collect his son and entered after Lord opened the door. He acknowledged that they argued about the child's half-brother but claimed the disagreement escalated because Lord objected to his tone.He also disputed the mother's description of his behaviour outside the house.

Vaxter submitted a video recording of the confrontation, saying he had started filming after Lord accused him of being abusive.The footage showed both parents arguing on the porch, with Lord standing close to the child and keeping him behind her.

Vaxter could be heard accusing her of playing games and lying. He also called her "Karen" during the exchange.Vaxter relied on the recording to challenge the protection order. He argued that it showed no physical assault, threats or other conduct that could justify the mother's claims.

He also pointed out that she had admitted there was no physical contact between them during the incident.However, the appeals court noted that the recording did not capture the entire confrontation. It began after the events inside the house, which meant it could not establish what had happened before Vaxter took out his phone.The lower court had accepted the mother's account of his behaviour before the recording began, including his entry into the house and his alleged movement towards her and the child.Court keeps father away from mother and child The dispute reached the Pennsylvania Superior Court after Vaxter challenged the protection order issued on July 2.

He argued that the lower court had wrongly restricted his contact with his son and had not established that he posed a direct risk to the child.The appeals...